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Zombieing

Definition

When someone who previously ghosted unexpectedly returns and resumes contact as though nothing happened.

Example
Three months after disappearing, her match zombied back with a casual ‘hey stranger.’
How it is used

The term is used when a dead conversation appears to come back to life without an explanation or apology.

Origin and context

Zombieing extends the undead metaphor of zombies and became popular in online dating commentary after ghosting entered mainstream vocabulary.

Common variations

zombied

Contacted again by someone who had ghosted.

back from the dead

A joking description of the person’s return.

ghosted then returned

A literal description of zombieing.

Frequently asked questions
Is every ex who reaches out zombieing?

No. It usually requires an earlier unexplained disappearance or ghosting.

Why do people zombie?

Reasons may include boredom, loneliness, curiosity, or checking whether access to the person remains open.

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