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Adulting

Definition

Handling responsibilities associated with independent adult life, especially tasks that feel tedious, unfamiliar, or unexpectedly difficult.

Example
I spent Saturday paying bills and scheduling appointments—serious adulting.
How it is used

The word is often humorous or self-congratulatory after completing routine responsibilities.

Origin and context

Adult was turned into a playful verb in online culture during the 2010s, especially among millennials discussing early independence.

Common variations

adulting hard

Managing many adult responsibilities at once.

failed at adulting

A joking admission of difficulty.

Frequently asked questions
Is adulting a formal word?

It is informal but widely understood.

What counts as adulting?

Common examples include budgeting, cooking, cleaning, appointments, paperwork, and household maintenance.

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