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Red Flag

Definition

A warning sign that a person, behavior, or situation may be unhealthy, unsafe, or incompatible.

Example
Being rude to every server was a red flag.
How it is used

People use it seriously for harmful behavior and casually for minor preferences.

Origin and context

Red flags have long symbolized danger, and the metaphor became central to online relationship advice.

Common variations

major red flag

A strong warning sign.

walking red flag

A person displaying many concerning traits.

red-flag behavior

Actions interpreted as concerning.

Frequently asked questions
What does Red Flag mean?

A warning sign that a person, behavior, or situation may be unhealthy, unsafe, or incompatible.

How is Red Flag used?

People use it seriously for harmful behavior and casually for minor preferences.

Where did Red Flag come from?

Red flags have long symbolized danger, and the metaphor became central to online relationship advice.

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