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Friendzone

Definition

A situation in which one person wants romance while the other views the relationship as platonic.

Example
He asked her out, but she said she only saw him as a friend, so he called it the friendzone.
How it is used

The term describes mismatched romantic interest, but it can sound entitled if used to imply friendship is a punishment or that affection is owed.

Origin and context

Friend zone appeared in popular culture in the 1990s and spread widely through sitcoms, forums, memes, and dating discussions.

Common variations

friend-zoned

Rejected romantically but regarded as a friend.

just friends

A neutral description of a platonic relationship.

out of the friendzone

A phrase for a friendship becoming romantic.

Frequently asked questions
Is the friendzone a real place?

No. It is a metaphor for mismatched expectations.

Can friends later date?

Yes, but neither person owes the other a romantic relationship.

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